Wielding the Goddess energy – Franca Lanyon

Transcript: Divina Franca interviewed by Divina Kate:

14/May/2021

I come from an Italian background grew up as a good Catholic and my prior to doing what I do now,  I went to school for design and worked for various of different advertising agencies and pharmaceutical agencies, I was a junior art director there, I owned my own freelance design company for various different designs, that was in my 20s and then I wanted more, it led me to this to here where I am now in the modern mystery school where I do various of different things.

be a voice in the world and be on this mission of peace, how I can bring my piece into it.

Q:  term Goddess and female rights and these movements, different perspectives, how we should be or acting? in the mystery school we have that goddess energy that we bring in, why is the goddess energy important? what does it bring to the world?

A: interesting, that’s a wonderful question, because of what is happening on our planet and especially the movements that are happening, and women are seeking empowerment,

there is many ways we can do that, and I am in definitely about women’s empowerment, having that that individuality, having that self- sufficiency, about holding strength, about being in your own powers, I’m all about that,

 and I wanted to that right off the bat, because there may be somethings in here that you don’t agree with, that is OK, we are here to work this all out, there’s not only one way, and there’s not going to be a perfect way, but there will be a correct way, I hope for us women as goddesses will come to learn what that is as we muddle our way through this.

why is the goddess energy important?

we have a huge responsibility in life, we really do, all of us humanity do,

but for us women we have that leading energy, we have the leading energy in this world, in this planet, and what that means is,

we can birth life and light on to this planet,

then we have that leading energy in the world,

does that mean we’re more special?

does that mean we are more important than?

are we more special than the men? more important than a man?

it’s not really about who is more important here, it’s about the energy and what is meant to do. And how it works differently between a female versus a male.

if we look at a male and female energy, the masculine energy operates within the boundaries and the parameters that of which a woman sets.

so whatever the divine feminine sets up,  that is in what the male masculine energy can operate in, so in other words males can only operate on mass in ways that are permissible by a woman, by us.

believe it or not we each have a role on this planet.

if we were to look at it as an Infinity loop, keeping that energy flowing,

so the women who received this energy the male provided,  (This is not about male and female relationship by the husband boyfriend, this is whatever male whoever male you have in your life as a woman as a goddess)

 and there’s this Infinity loop, and the women receive the energy, the men provides the energy, and the women receive it, we take it , we create something with that energy, and then we put it back out into the world, once it goes back out into the world, it does what it needs to do, and what it does it comes back, we take that energy again from the male,  we receive it and we create with it again.

what does that mean? does that mean that our actions are important? what we do with the things that we create, does it mean that it has no value, does it mean that there’s not a responsibility to it?

 No, this is where the power of the goddess is very responsible, is very powerful, and there is actual value to it, and we have to be careful in how we use it ,

do we have sole responsibility,

is it all up to us, and no matter what anybody does around us that is not a woman, does it matter what they do, and whatever we do is what matters, is it all our responsibility?

No, it’s not all our responsibility, it’s not, but we can’t do it alone.

 so I’m going to speak to that later,

we can’t do it alone, but we set the tone.

we set the tone for example of anger to any one thing, then the anger will be going out that way, and then it’s going to come back to us in the same way, unless we decide to change it.

if we operate with kindness, then the kindness will be brought out there, if we are nurturing, it will be brought out there, and it will come back so, because we are the leaders of setting things in tone, it is very important for us to know or be aware of what are we doing, and what are we setting up, and how are we doing it, with what actions, what inactions,

it is important, and we do have a big role when it comes to what is happening in the world, believe it or not,

so within the construct of this divine feminine, that is part of our very flesh, that is part of our being,

for all the goddess is out there, either you are aware of it, either you have felt it or you’ve never felt it or have never known, what is part of us, we are born with it,

 is kindness compassion nurturing caring loving,

we have that supportive energy, that energy that can bring in that joy, and we have and this is the part where when we are setting the tone what that means is, we have that quiet strength that holds everything together,

the woman holds it all together, and yes there is truth to that, we do hold everything together, we are the container, that vessel that holds it all together,

when that quiet strength is not there, when the container is not there, then the world falls apart,

because if we look at anything that happens in life, if there’s not a foundation, if there’s not anything holding that any one thing, it becomes very unstable,

Q:  we have this ability to make huge changes immediately in our life and on everybody around us right away, what would it look like if the goddess energy isn’t honoured?

what does it look like if it’s distorted or misused?

 how could that look like in our daily life?

A: let me start off with this, and kind of loop in what I was saying before,

 there’s a mystery to us women, a lot of men out there would probably agree to that ,we are mysterious beings, and absolutely, because at any given time we can change our mind, create whatever we want to create, do as we think is right ,and whole bunch of a big long list of things,

but when I say there’s a mysterious part to us, and the mystery is we as women on a whole, and this amazing man in my life once told me as we were discussing things of life:

we lack this knowledge, the strength of understanding how powerful we are,

how impactful it is when we have certain actions or inactions,

I don’t think the goddesses have realised that,

many women don’t understand that power, and how impactful it is to the world,

that is if you’re working on something, if you say one word, and if you walk into a room, we don’t even have to say anything, and that power is there, or not there.

but we do have that, because we set a tone, and because we are that container, and because we lead, because we receive and we create and we give birth to,

then there is a really big power within us, and we sometimes lack the understanding of that,

and from that we create certain actions or inactions, and at times that are not always so positive, and that can actually do more harm than good.

when I’m talking about the goddess I’m not talking about everybody, but a big percentage of what our world our planet the place that is in right now, maybe minus the pandemic I’m not sure,

but I think we’ve lost our way a little bit,

I think the light within us and within our heart is a little dim.

again it’s not all women, it’s not all goddesses,

there is powerful goddesses that totally understand it, they are in their place, they are centred in there, like I get it, I know who I am, what I am, where I’m supposed to go, what I’m supposed to do, and how I am supposed to be treated…. and the list goes on…

we need to turn it around,

we need to turn that part of us around,

so we can understand what our power can actually do, and that is within us, it’s not out there, it’s here, it’s right here,

there’s a lot of things out there about women and their energy and their power, some of them are true and some of them are not, but we have to turn that ship around, we are the captain of our own ship, so we have to turn it around.

because we kind of lost that way, we need to make this one major constructive shift, this one thing that if we do not change it, nothing will change on this planet, nothing will change.

we will continue feeding the enemy on our planet which is separation,

and right now I know we are fighting for rights, what is right, right is wrong, we deserve this, we deserve that……yes we’re in great power,

absolutely, but there’s also a way of doing it.

when we do it we have to be careful that we’re not feeding the enemy, and right now the enemy in our planet is separation.

it is separation between women and men, it is separation between women and women, and when we bring up issues of the goddess, there are actually more issues between the goddess versus another goddess,

one thing we need to shift is developing the strength,

developed that strength as a woman from hatred to love,

can we be angry, yes,

are we not happy with world operations, of all things on this planet, perhaps yes maybe some areas maybe a little bit maybe a lot,

but if we’re trying to change any one thing, we need to come from a place, even though there might be upset we need to come from a place and have the intent to change it with peace, so we can have peace, because if we look at it, we’re not fighting for anger, we’re fighting for peace, we are fighting for fairness ( I call it fairness not equality fairness) ,that’s what we’re fighting for, if we look at these movements and all that kind of stuff,

why are we not honoured, is a tricky but not really tricky question,

talking about the planet and where the world is right now, we have this very prominent movement, I think a lot of people agree with me in our world, of take no responsibility.

that is the movement: take no responsibility,

that is what we are feeding the soul of people in this world.

I want the power, I want the freedom, I want the rights, I want the fairness, I want the expression, but I take no responsibility, and that’s not a very good place for us to be in.

that is not a very good place, if we are the leaders, we are the container that holds the light, that holds the children of earth together, then we need to take responsibility,

we need to take responsibility for our actions or inactions, because from that we can develop peace unity togetherness love, nurturing, supportive….

we need to take responsibility, we can’t sit here and say, well you know I’m better than, so therefore I’m not taking any responsibility, or I want to do all of this but I’m not taking any responsibility,

this is what I mean by losing our way for some of us, we have lost our way to understand what that really means,

if we tie it back into what you were just asking about what happens when the goddess energy is not honoured,

First, where does that honour come from, as a goddess, where does it come from, the goddess energy is not being honoured, it is destroyed, distorted, being misused…

I’m going to separate this from the women that have had abusive situations in their life and all these kind of things, I don’t condone any of that, I don’t condone it for a man, I don’t condone it for a woman, that’s not what I’m talking about.

I’m talking about honouring of everyday life, honouring of our actions, that honouring of who we are on this planet as a Goddess,

The dishonouring is happening is because, the goddess is allowing it,

the goddess is allowing dishonouring to happen,

why do we feel dishonoured, how come there’s this distortion, or why there’s the misuse?

is because we are not honouring ourselves,

we are not understanding that power,

we look out there for it, we try to search for it out there, we are trying to search the honour out there, I want someone to honour me,

great, what are you honouring yourself?

I want someone to respect me, awesome, do you respect yourself?

I want to have strength, okay great, so where are you going to get it from?

it’s not out there.

if we’re asking for something, then we need to give it to ourselves first before we are wanting it from someone else,

because when we ask for it from someone else, it’s not going to be enough,

it’s not going to fill that that hole within us, and we’re going to keep on asking,

as we keep on asking, it becomes more distorted,

when we keep on asking, we’re going to get more confused, then the story of it changes,

and we see this cycle of, finding ourselves in sadness, or in pain, or we’ve been hurt, or we find ourselves in lack of love, all these things that we hear that many of us have all gone through once upon a time maybe, or are at this moment.

so we have to get it within ourselves,

and when we do that, we will find that the people surrounding us will give us the very things that we are really wanting,

because we’re standing our ground with it, we’re showing it,

what we show and put out is what’s going to return.

Q:  fundamental basic teaching this is, that responsibility lies within us.

the goddess is all powerful and can do all of these amazing things,

if a woman can do everything, why is the masculine important?

lots of women want to do everything, then the men get confused,  

is it positive that we do everything? we don’t allow a man to do it,

a lot of confusion around that,

A:

there’s a lot to it, this is why there’s so much confusion.

end up from having that power, or that lack of understanding of that power within,

when we have that pure power within us,  when I say pure power because many people have this misconception of what power means, they think it’s something negative, and it’s not that, it is the strength of self, of who you are, and why you came here, what is your purpose on this planet, and with that power within ourselves as goddesses, we will then be honoured,

but we have to allow it, because it’s going to lead into the next thing,

we have to allow that honour to take place, we have to allow that honour number one for ourselves, but we have to allow that honour to be honoured by a man, and we have to allow yourself to be honoured by a woman,

we have to allow that because if we keep on denying it, or if we keep on pushing it away, then we’re only going to have the honour within ourselves and from nowhere else,

there is that movement I don’t want any responsibility, that was coming from both men and women,

the movement of we don’t need men makes me sad,

I don’t really come from that thought process, and it didn’t occur to me to even think that way or to come from that place, maybe because I’ve always just had strong men in my life, my best friends were men, growing up they were actually less judgmental, less of a pressure to be around,

can the goddess do everything and not really need the masculine energy the male energy around them?

what is wrong?

there’re so many movements during this pandemic, I do believe some of them had the intent of good, because we had thing called the negative ego came into play, it polluted things I think.

women can do everything, Ok, let’s start here,

why is being a woman wrong? Also why is being a man so wrong? why is it that these things are wrong?

if we are trying to create fairness,

 let’s say fairness, I don’t like the word equal, because Kate I’m not equal to you, you’re a tall British blonde blue eyed woman, and I am a short darker skin Italian woman, and that doesn’t make me and you equal, we are different but there can be a fairness between you and I when it comes to certain things, and no different between a man in a woman.

why is it so bad or what is so wrong to be a woman?

and why is it so wrong to be a man?

and why is it that we think with this behaviour…  I’m sad about lot of comments on online, whatever platforms I see movement of women marching down the street, pictures, on TV, online…

why do we think that removing or denying an existence of another human being would bring us peace on earth, would bring us resolution, would bring us strength and inner power?

why do we think if us goddesses are saying we don’t need a man, why do we think from that very energy that we were born with and were meant to use so we can set the good tone on our planet,

why do we think that denying another human being like a man on earth on our planet that have a roll, have an important role to this all,

 and we felt that, no we cannot create, we can’t, we cannot create male female, we need both,

again this is not about marriage, this is not about boyfriend and girlfriend,

this is about the existence of the feminine and masculine energy on our planet.

can we do everything? that’s interesting, can the goddess do everything?

absolutely not!

please goddesses forgive me, maybe don’t forgive me, be mad at me,

but truthfully, we can’t do everything.

that is an illusion, a man can’t do everything, a woman can’t do everything.

why does a woman want to do everything anyways?

why do we want to do everything?

what are we proving? what are we trying to prove…that we can multi task, absolutely!

are we good multitaskers? Absolutely!

there is more women out there that are better multitaskers than men,  that has been my experience,  but does that mean we can do everything?

I think that has become an illusion that we have actually bought into,

I think that is part of the problem that we have a woman versus a woman,

that we have bought into that illusion that we can do everything,

and what we do is we’re trying to live up to, what we are roaring for,

and when we tried to live up to something that were roaring for, but it’s not pure, or it’s not something we can actually do, that’s where we start to lose ourselves.

right if you get a woman trying to do everything, sit down with them at the end of the day, and ask them how they’re feeling about themselves, ask them who they are, ask them if they had that self care, ask them if they remember the last time maybe they took a shower, because they were running around trying to do everything because this is what they have actually bought into,

what about… can we do the things that we love, yes we can,

are we powerful in any one thing that we can do? Absolutely.

but do everything? that, for me and from what I have experienced from being around a lot of women in my life, is an illusion that we have bought into, and that illusion has caused massive pressure on us, massive.

when I say pressure, I’m talking about judgement, and I’m talking about acceptance , because for us women, a threat to us in our lives is another woman, it’s not a man.

we are not threatened by men, of course there are other situations… but when it comes to just everyday life,  and our energy, we are threatened more by another woman not by another man.

Why?

we are a lot harsher on each other, there’s big judgement, lack of acceptance.

take a room full of men, this is an example, this is not about what’s right or wrong, I’m talking about pure energy of the goddess, a woman walks in,

it’s a room full of 50 men, and one woman walks into that room, you will not find one man judging her, one of the men will say, who is that and why is she here.

but if you get this one woman walking into a room full of women, many of them will have something to say about her, oh who is she, where she come from, Oh my God what is she wearing, what is she doing here, look at her hair, I’ve never seen her before,

it is almost like right there, that judgement begins, and meanwhile this woman just wants friends, she just walking into her room, she just wants to be around other goddesses,

so we have to strengthen our power within ourselves, that we can’t buy into this illusion that we can do everything, and when you think you can do everything, you have to ask yourself why?

why do you need to do everything?

why can we not honour the role of the masculine energy on our planet, to allow them to provide us with their energy, so we can go on and create whatever we want to create, and be there and show kindness love nurturing and all this kind of stuff?

this part is important, because there’s so many women out there that is stuck in the situation:

we can’t do what a man does, and a man can’t do what we do.

that’s just our energy, and that’s our purpose,

we have roles in our lives, yes we have energetic roles on this planet, and we’re forgetting that.

the moment that the Goddess tries to move into the role of the masculine,

if you get a single mother, she’s like well I don’t need a man, only to be on my own I’m going to do this, or we get that one woman that works in an office place that prominently all men, (by the way you won’t find that nowadays because the men are too scared of us and that is a true thing), if there’s one woman working at this company that are all men, she will want to become more like the man to fit in, and she will start to try to muster up this masculine energy within her to try to fit in,

and when she does that, she loses herself as a goddess, she forgets who she is, she forgets that she has she has the leading power even though there’s five men in the room and she’s the only woman, she forgets that she is the goddess, and that she can set the tone,

are women good at telling men what they need to do?

yes we are and we have to be clear and most of the time we’re not,

but that Goddess loses herself, she really does, so then after you ask where’s the goddess?

Q: very powerful, that reminder of honouring the masculine and honouring the goddess, and then we can have unity in peace, not just within us but within the whole planet.

we could shift to a place of peace just in a few years if we could all master this.

A:  Yes.

if we want to march and make a difference,

if we March in kindness, and we don’t show hatred and anger,  hatred and anger coming from past issues or situations that any one woman has had in her life,  that is still within her,  and marching saying I hate you, don’t need you, what it may be, that woman is in pain, that God is in pain, she’s hurt,  marching is not going to heal her,

it’s not going to do anything to her other than make her more angry and more upset, so the goddess needs to heal that,  needs to understand who am I, and what am I here to do,

if us goddess’s want to March, and we want to make a difference, let’s heal, let’s find our power, know thyself, know who you are,

and we can March together in unity, spreading the same light, spreading the same message,

so when we spread that message of peace or unity with all,  then I guarantee you unity with all,

 Cos once we have that clarity, many things won’t even matter anymore,

 they won’t,

but we need to heal the hurt and the pain within us before we can say yes let’s go March,

 because we need to be stable and strong within making that big shift of pain and hatred and all that can stuff, and turn it into love and kindness.